Today,
I also came across the following article which appeared in the Guardian
Newspaper on 7th June 2011 which makes a similar viewpoint to the
one I’m expounding:
The
invisible domestic violence – against men | Nicola Graham-Kevan
Tuesday 7 June 2011
More women
are being convicted of domestic violence, but discovering the true number of
male victims is a complex affair
That women accounted for 7% of all convictions for domestic
violence last year will come as a surprise to many. But what is not clear is
whether the growing numbers of women convicted – a 150% increase in
five years – represents a rise in actual cases of female-perpetrated
domestic violence.
Domestic violence has traditionally been understood as a crime
perpetrated by domineering men against defenceless women. Research spanning
over 40 years has, however, consistently found that men and women self-report
perpetrating domestic violence at similar rates. Professor John Archer from the
University of Central Lancashire has conducted a
number of meta-analytic reviews of these studies and found that women are as
likely to use domestic violence as men, but women are twice as likely as men to
be injured or killed during a domestic assault. Men still represent a
substantial proportion of people who are assaulted, injured or killed by an
intimate partner (50%, 30% and 25% respectively).
If the empirical research is correct in suggesting that between
a quarter and half of all domestic violence victims are men, a question
follows: why has women's domestic violence towards men been unreported for so
long, and what has changed in the last five years to make it more visible?
One reason may be the feminist movement. Feminism took up the
cause of domestic abuse of women in the 1970s, with the world's first women's
refuge being opened by Erin
Pizzey in 1971. Feminism understood domestic violence as the natural
extension of men's patriarchal attitudes towards women, leading men to feel
they had the right to control their partners, using violence if necessary.
Feminists campaigned successfully to bring the issue into the public arena,
thereby securing resources to establish services to help victims. This activism
and advocacy led to governmental and public acceptance that "domestic
violence" was synonymous with violence against women.
Paradoxically, feminist concerns for female victims may also
have led to the recent increase in arrests of female perpetrators. The
disparity between prevalence study statistics and criminal conviction data of
male domestic violence perpetration led US feminists to successfully campaign
for mandatory arrest policies for domestic violence call-outs. Mandatory arrest
policies coincided with a three-fold increase in the number of women arrested.
In the UK, a pro-arrest policy was also introduced, requiring police forces to
always consider an arrest in domestic violence cases. Although not eliminating
police discretion, the policy undoubtedly diminished individual police
officers' discretionary powers. The increase in female arrests for domestic
violence suggests that when police officers were freer to exercise discretion,
it was exercised more frequently in favour of female perpetrators.
Support for a feminist conceptualisation of domestic violence
has been afforded by men's generally more visible violent behaviour. Men make
up the majority of perpetrators of violence in public places, such as football
matches and nightclubs. As men appear to be more ready, willing and able to use
violence outside the home, the logical extension is that men are more violent
than women per se. This argument has frequently been cited by researchers such
as Professors Russell and Emerson Dobash as
evidence against the veracity of figures showing large numbers of male victims
of domestic violence, while ignoring the fact that men's aggression in public
places is almost always directed towards other men.
In recent years, female violence has become a more public
affair, with changes in drinking patterns being a likely contributing factor to
more women being arrested for violent offences outside of the home. In
addition, the widespread use of CCTV may have provided sufficient evidence for
the police and CPS to override stereotypes of women as nonviolent. The erosion
of the passive female stereotype is likely to result in more women being
charged and convicted of offences generally, which might also result in
increases in the conviction rates for women's domestic violence.
The dual stereotypes of the violent man and passive woman have
undoubtedly obscured the existence of male victims of domestic violence in the
past. Men were also unlikely to view their own victimisation as
either domestic violence or a criminal assault, and
so were unlikely to seek help.
Large sums of money have been spent on educational campaigns to
encourage female victims to seek help. Until there are similar campaigns for
men, it is unlikely that the true number of male victims needing help will be
known. If the current trends continue however, women may find themselves
increasingly likely to be charged with domestic assault, and men more likely to
be offered help and protection.
Domestic
Violence awareness campaigns are greatly needed and are to be encouraged. However, I long for the day when they lose
the gender bias in reporting. All
domestic abuse is wrong irrespective of the gender of the perpetrator or
victim.
Domestic violence isn't just physical violence, it is defined much more widely. Read this and you will realise some of the ways in which women may abuse men. However, only physical violence is a criminal offence. That is why female violence against men appears to be so low.
ReplyDeleteDV includes (from Mankind):
http://www.mankind.org.uk/typesdomesticabuse.html
Examples of power and control:
Abusers believe they have a right to control their partners by:
Telling them what to do and expecting obedience
Using force to maintain power and control
Not accepting responsibility for the abuse – not their fault
Examples of Emotional and Psychological Abuse:
Intimidation
Withholding affection
Turning your children and friends against you
Being stopped from seeing friends or relatives
Constantly being insulted, including in front of others
Repeatedly being belittled
Keeping you awake/stopping you sleeping
Excessive contact, for example stalking
Using social media sites to intimidate you (such as Facebook and Twitter)
Examples of Financial Abuse:
Totally controlling the family income
Not allowing you to spend any money unless ‘permitted’
Making you account for every pound you spend
Running up huge bills such as credit/store cards in your name
Purposely defaulting on payments
Examples of Sexual Abuse:
Sexually degrading language
Examples of Isolation:
Limiting outside involvement such as family, friends and work colleagues
Not allowing any activity outside the home that does not include her
Constant checking up on your whereabouts
Note that there is a lot more on the Mankind website, I have not included everything.